Interracial Dating and Love: How It Differs In Many Ways

Interracial dating in the past has been considered taboo. But as time passed by, more and more people came to understand and accept relationships of people from different races. Although there are still quite a few who are uncomfortable about the idea of interracial dating, most people in the society nowadays are open-minded.

You cannot control what your heart tells you. If you fell in love with someone from a different culture and racial background, you may find it difficult to fight for your love because of other people’s reactions. However, there are a lot of interracial relationships that prove to last longer than those who have had same-race relationships. This may be because they felt a stronger bond of love between them and the trials that they went through made them love each other more, instead of breaking them apart. They grow together as one which is a really strong foundation for real love and long lasting relationship.

There are some challenges that face interracial dating because of cultural differences between interracial couples. There are some countries that still have this societal pressures and prejudices about it. In addition, some of the interracial couple’s family members might oppose the union because they might think that it is unsuitable for their family’s image in the society. They are worried about what other people might think about their son or daughter’s relationship with another person of different background and color.

The cultural differences between the couple are one of the most difficult of all challenges because each one has to adjust to the other’s cultural upbringing. While establishing their own family, the question lingers about how they would raise their children. What cultural background should they be exposed to and other things for that matter. In order to resolve this, they should have a serious exchange of ideas for raising their children. The best thing to do is mix in all the good things about each culture but leave out anything negative about it.

Interracial dating might have its difficulties and trials however there are a lot of couples who are successfully and happily married. They outgrew and withstand all the trials they have faced during their first days of dating up to the time they have established a happy home. They both have benefited of learning new things about one another’s culture, both the good and the bad attributes of each culture.

Another thing that contributes to the success of every interracial dating and relationships is the advancements of technology nowadays. The mobile phone industry and the internet revolution lets people interact accordingly even if they are on the opposite sides of the planet. They feel closer than the actual thousands of miles distance between them. According to studies, there are more love quotes and love sms sent nowadays and much more egreetings sent over the internet. This surely is the essence of the new technologies constantly renovated each day and the interracial couples are greatly benefiting from them.

Interracial couples are brave enough to face the world and let the society know that nothing can stand between them and their love for each other. The more challenges and trials the interracial couples are undergoing, the stronger their relationship becomes. This only proves that love can indeed conquer all, from the moment it starts and hopefully until eternity.

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13 Responses to “Interracial Dating and Love: How It Differs In Many Ways”

  1. helen__ says:

    i love my boyfriend and he loves me too.i am white and he is black.but he is the man that has the magic to make me fall in love. and thats why i love him

  2. lauren* says:

    i am white and i only date black guys. they are amazing men and i feel bad for the white woman who are too judge mental to get a taste of a whole different world. there is no love equal to that of a black mans.

  3. sarita silawal says:

    Even i agry what u wrote but also i believe that our family did so much for us n only for our love it was not easy to forget their scarified.It’s ok what we feel but to follow what we feel-let it for after their generation.

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  7. Shalinqa says:

    Leave the black man to the sistas all y’all takin them away and we don’t find yo white males attractive at all blehh.

    • lovinurblkmen says:

      dont blame it on us that ur men like us better. why is everytime a white women dates a black man u guys get all fired up. we dont take them they come to us. take the white men we dont need em were too busy with our beautiful black men too care.

    • lovinurblkmen says:

      why u so mad . there are plenty of black men to go round

    • Heather_Leigh says:

      I hate to tell ya sista but I know ALOT of black dudes who refuse to date you black girls cuz most of y’all disrespectful and y’all always got attitudes. My bf right now is black. He prefers us white women. So what?! He’s happy with me and I’m happy with him. And I know alot of black girls who do like white men.

    • yung40oz84 says:

      Well that’s a damn lie cause I got a black girl sitting right here that I have been with for six years. You must just be an exception because I have had my fair share of black woman.

  8. princezsjezip says:

    i am hispanic and my boyfriend is asian both our families are very strict about what they want in our lives but yet every day we break the odds and gain love for eachother everyday as our relation ship grows srtonger.

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